Like many others, I saw the
recent Kate Winslet mini-series “Mildred Pierce,” and finally saw the film
starring Joan Crawford on Mother’s Day weekend, so I decided to read the book
to further explore this story that deviates from many clichés of men, women,
and children’s interpersonal relationships.
First, I like period stories
that take in as a whole the economic effects, which is expected during the
Great Depression. Mr. Cain not only
explained it from the viewpoint of the lead character Mildred, but it was done
well enough to dread opening the mailbox for the incoming bills. Such realism adds richness to the book and is
applicable today.
Stories and marriage deviate
as much as marriage itself. The
relatively benign ending of Mildred’s first marriage isn’t typical, but some
marriages do end without a love/hate firestorm of verbal abuse and/or
worse. By the book’s end, the message
rings clear that married couples sometimes find more in common with each other
than anyone else they meet in the future.
The relationship of Mildred
and her dreadfully snobby daughter Veda I found to be difficult to take in;
I’ve never witnessed such in a child.
But in fairness to the author, it’s a deviation away from a cliché that
children always want to please their parents.
That isn’t always the case; here the parent is desperately trying to get
approval from her child. In a woman as
smart and independent as Mildred a logical thinker would say she should throw
that ungrateful kid out of the house; however, motherhood isn’t necessarily
logical when it comes to love and protection of children.
Mildred’s taste in men
appears to leave something to be desired, but again, she never appears to be
looking for “perfect” love. She wants
companionship and equality during a time when such is in rare quantity. While her marriage to her disloyal “boy-toy”
Monty was a bad choice, nothing about his behavior before the end suggested
that he would be anything else than what he turned out to be: A non-working, formerly wealthy man dependent
on women as long as he remained entertaining to them. She never respected him and he resented it.
Last, but not least, is the
character Mildred herself. While being
smart, strong-willed, and unpretentious, she makes misjudgments and
mistakes. The flaws in her character is
what makes her seem all the more real to the reader. She’s an inspiration for independent women
and a cautionary reminder that even the most headstrong lady can fall to the
oldest tricks that men do with women:
The opposite sex and money.
“Mildred Pierce,” is an
excellent, entertaining read. It’s an
alternative look into the life of a woman whose struggle isn’t raw emotion,
abuse, or low self-esteem. Instead, it
reveals a woman who rises out of hard financial times on her own terms and hits
the stumps of life that she can call her own.
Five stars!
Great review, C.c. I'm sure I have seen the old movie, though it does not come quick to the mind right now. I have not seen the mini-series. But I am now interested in the book!
ReplyDeleteSounds like a good read. Thanks for the great review and bringing it to my attention.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comments, all! It's a good read to me!
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